Be careful with A handsome Man You Have Recently Introduced! (Stereotypes)

Most people think that a handsome boy is certainly a kind person. Even, although they have recently introduced to him, they think and believe like it. They have opinion like it from his out appearance or performance. Their opinion is only from seeing him in the first sight. Whereas, what they think can be wrong because everybody has their own characteristics. To prove that not all handsome boys are kind persons, there are some real events that ever happened relating to this opinion.

It happened to my beloved brother who long ago always thought and believed that a handsome boy is a kind person certainly although he has recently introduced to him. Some years ago in the evening, after he got money from his job as a salesman of book, he wanted to prayed in mosque in Ibnu Khaldun University. Before he did it, he entrusted her bag to a handsome acquaintance boy who sat behind him and has just now introduced to him. Then, he prayed magrib. Finishing his pray, what a shock he was, there was no his bag anymore. It appeared, a handsome boy who he thought as a kind person has already went away and brought away his bag which contained of much money about three millions rupiah and data about his costumers’ debts. Whereas, he wanted to pay his lecture with that money. After that, he wept and really repented that event.

My self also ever had an experience about it. Four years ago, I was new comer in Bogor. I wanted to stay in Bogor because I wanted to work in this city. After I had been in it for 4 months, I didn’t get job yet. One day, when I went out around my boarding house, I got an acquaintance who was also a handsome boy. Then, he stopped by at my house and offered me a job as an administrator in PT. Inti Bogor. From seeing his out appearance, I thought that he was a kind person. I believed whatever he talked to me including a job that he offered to me. Even, he asked me to pay two hundreds thousands rupiah to get that job position and then I also pay it. After that, he never came to my boarding house anymore after he brought my money. Some days later, my brother looked for where PT. Inti but there was no it in Bogor. In fact, a handsome boy who I thought as a kind person was only deceiver. After that event, I will not fully believe with a handsome boy who just now introduces to me and whatever he says before I know the facts about him clearly and exactly.

Also, there is one of my friends who really believe about it. One day, when she was inside the bus from Solo to Yogyakarta, a handsome boy who sat beside her introduced to her. In her mind she said what a happy she was, she got an acquaintance boy who was very handsome, had good and neat performance. When arriving at the bus terminal in Klaten, the girl went to toilet and she entrusted her bag which contained of gold necklaces and bracelets. Unfortunately, when was back to the bus, he was not there. The bus stayed at that terminal for long enough time to wait for him but he didn’t appear to be back on it. He has gone and brought her bag which contained of worth things. She really regretted that she has entrusted her bag to him. What she thought about him was wrong. In fact, he was not a kind person in spite of being handsome because he brought away her worth things which she put on her bag. Indeed, he was a pickpocket or thief. She cried and wept but crying and weeping will can not make her worth things back anymore.

In conclusion, I conclude that people who have good faces and bodies will not always show that those people are kind persons. It means that we may not guess about people only from their physical appearance or from our first sight to them because it can not often be true opinion about them. Therefore, when we have just now introduced to a handsome boy, we can not fully believe that he is a kind person. In addition, we must be careful with not only a handsome boy but also all people who we have recently introduced in order that the bad things which is unwanted does not befall us and we will not get in trouble. Finally, it is no doubt anymore that we can not think a handsome boy who has recently introduced to us as a kind person before we gain many facts about him in order that we can not get problems.